which is why chinese men and sleezy foreign men would lie and manipulate , claiming to seek love but just wanting sex. they grow up brainwashed by porn and facebook and parents have no ability to impose morals. As an experiment I created an account on a chat program as a beautiful young woman. Everyday about 30 men on average wanted to meet up or pay for sex. I asked some if they were married why they were asking. "havent developed an ability to empathise and love" Someone falls over in China, probably dead, who cares. Baby said it's first word in China, probably daddy or mummy, who cares. I have never entered a relationship looking for sex, just blew your westerner theory out of the water by myself didn't I? Apr 08, 2015 Yes of course, because China won the Empathy Gold Medal in the last olympics didn't it? There are many out there that are quite open to sex very early into the "relationship".
99% of the single foreign men i met , who aren't seeking a long term relationship do not manipulate women. They would always reply "what does it matter if I am married". Chinese Society is a lot of things but empathetic certainly isn't one of them. There are many Chinese women that arent "innocent", and are quite curious to be with non-chinese/ non-asian.
Sinologist William Boltz (197) says this tradition is "now generally recognized as untenable", but believes the extant Yili "is a remnant of "a larger corpus of similar ceremonial and ritual texts dating from pre-Han times, perhaps as early as the time of Confucius; that much of this was lost by Han", while "some may have come to be preserved in the text known today as the [Liji]".they simple have a "pay as you go" gf or they frequent bar girls or massage parlors or they find a nice "leftover" woman . (Ill go out on a limb and say its a word of mouth phenomena occurring here and it generally speaks of foreigners being better in bed, generally speaking of course...) Apr 06, 2013 being honest Shanghai is much more open than the U. and after 2 years here I witness Chinese men sleeping around, cheating, secretly running into massage places and even go in as groups. Chinese men are cowardly,not honest and maybe better liars, foreign men are mostly honest and will say what they have done and are doing.mind you , the guys i met were older (30 and over) and the chinese guys my friends dated were usually younger so it is an unfair comparsion. Chinese men are having more sex than foreign men, nuff said. how do Chinese ladies those who want/looking for a husband/bf marriage feel/act when they are told by me or ask me that im still a virgin till I marry, and I never been married and im a American caucasion who is 50 years old wanting a well to do single Chinese lady to marry? Jun 15, 2015 I dated a Chinese guy and to be honest it was just for sex beacuse honestly I don't see myself getting married and living in Choina.All leisure activities including visits to natural beauty spots or holy relics are enjoyed in large noisy groups, and the desire of some Western tourists to be “left alone” can be interpreted by locals as eccentric or arrogant.Exotic foreigners inevitably become targets for blatant curiosity.