by Dawgelene "Dr Dawj" Sangster- You meet this beautiful woman, strike up a conversation, love her energy and personality and decide you want to take her out.During the conversation she tells you she is a widow and you bypass that quickly because you want to get this lady on a romantic date and show her how great of a guy you are!Love Begins is a dating site for over-40s that’s committed to making all our users feel welcome, happy and above all comfortable in their dating experiences.That’s never more important than when you’re beginning to date again after losing your spouse.TALKING ABOUT A LATE SPOUSE: SHOULD YOU ASK QUESTIONS? If a couple were married at a young age, married a long time, or have children/grandchildren, it is going to be very difficult to talk about his/her life without mentioning a late spouse.This can only be threatening to you, if you allow it to be. He or she is not coming back, so you are not going to lose your new mate to him or her. In general, when you get to know someone you want to share your past with him or her. This time it just happens to include a person that is no longer alive.
Your life experiences are something that made you who you are today.
Many have been married for several years—in some cases, more than forty years.
Many have had comfortable, long-term relationships and have gotten secure in their daily existence.
Some may not have ever dated another woman, because they married the first woman they ever met.
A lot of older widowers have grown children; in fact, many may even be grandfathers. Widowers often need a woman’s touch around the house.