Commanders who never ask for an opinion, never listen to suggestions, and think they have the only correct idea find that their Soldiers will stop communicating altogether. No matter how high in the ranks a man goes, he can't know everything. Juniors must learn not only to be allowed to use their imaginations, but they must be encouraged to do so.
1 I celebrate myself, and sing myself, And what I assume you shall assume, For every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you.
Urge and urge and urge, Always the procreant urge of the world.
These preferences and strategies have evolved to adaptively guide the selection of mates who are reproductively viable (Buss and Schmitt ); however, they are not always fulfilled in the mates that people actually select due to various reasons.
For instance, people’s initial assessments can be inaccurate, partners’ relative mate value can change, and partners often face sexual conflict or strategic interference.
A study by Benz, Anderson, and Miller found "that both men and women believe that men attempt to deceive women about their financial status and level of commitment, and that women attempt to deceive men about their physical attractiveness." Wow!
"Never do anything against conscience even if the state demands it.