.action_button.action_button:active.action_button:hover.action_button:focus,.action_button:hover.action_button:focus .count,.action_button:hover .count.action_button:focus .count:before,.action_button:hover .count:before.u-margin-left--sm.u-flex.u-flex-auto.u-flex-none.bullet. Error Banner.fade_out.modal_overlay.modal_overlay .modal_wrapper.modal_overlay .modal_wrapper.normal@media(max-width:630px)@media(max-width:630px).modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:before.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:before.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:before.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:hover:before. Moments from friends and family of “Oh, I know someone from [insert country or race America, Germany, Australia, Mexico etc.]” because like your significant other knows everyone from their country and race.21. Disapproving words or stares from people who don’t believe in interracial or cross-cultural dating.23.Wondering what would have happened if you did live in the same city.43.No pressure because it’s just a traveler fling, and you know it wouldn’t work out in real life anyways.44. Not resenting someone who wasn’t ready to make those sacrifices.48. The novelty of dating someone of a different country or race.50.Assumptions that either person has a “fetish” for a certain race or culture.45. Understanding that love sees no color, feels no borders, hears no accent, and tastes nothing but sweet sweet kisses of trust, friendship, and passion.
The guy that had referred to me as being ‘one of those white girls that hook up with black men from the park’, was my age, hipster like, white and German. Apparently that means that it comes with an immense stupidity, or racism, however you like to call it.They were walking behind us and I could overhear their conversation.‘White girls that date black men from the park,’ he continued.My (now ex-) boyfriend looked at me and wanted to turn around.‘Let it go,’ I whispered, ‘they’re just being stupid.’We both had the Dutch nationality, but he was born in Somalia.Saying something in your native language and feeling sexy.6. Using “culture” as a crutch to letting them get away with behavior you don’t agree with.10. Trying to learn basic phrases in their language.14. Discussions about the US failure to “get” soccer (if one is American).28. Celebrating another country or race’s traditions.30. Having a personal translator in at least one language.35. Actually moving to a new city or country, doing long-distance, or breaking up.39. Pioneering the new world by statically going against that in 2015 most people still don’t date outside of their race.41.Hearing something in their native language and it being sexy.7. Being referred to as “The American” “The German” “The Aussie” instead of as “the xyz.”11. Wondering if you’ll make it past this weekend, these few months, or lifetime together.36. TOO MUCH PRESSURE TOO SOON Because your decision to move or do long-distance shouldn’t have to be made until you know each other well enough to make that decision, but hey, you don’t have a choice when flights are booked.42.