*Go away for a weekend every six weeks *Make a point to enjoy two new activities each month*Do exciting things, like sky-diving or sex in a hotel room*Stop making excuses and make time for sex*Act on the flicker or passing thought of desire*Keep depositing into your sexual bank account 'It doesn’t need to be expensive, just get you out of your usual environment where all the problems are (work, money, kids, stress),' she said.'Make a pact with other couples to take turns and look after each other’s kids and if a weekend is too ambitious, aim for one night, once a month in a decent hotel nearby.'Having fun is what ignites that first spark in many relationships, so it's important to keep that fun alive!
'Once people decide they’re serious about each other, they start getting serious about life: get a mortgage, have kids,' Tracey said.'The relationship moves from ‘fun’ to ‘functional’: we stop concentrating on the relationship and concentrate on work and money.''Get into the habit of planning at least two new activities to do together a month: theatre, a show, trying new restaurants, watching films.'Acting on the thought of sex sound obvious, but how many of us have left it at a passing thought?
Australia's leading sex toy retailer, Lovehoney, surveyed 4,500 people about their sexual fantasies and found a surprising number of men and women fantasize about having sex with an ex-partner.
International sex expert Tracey Cox said while the majority of answers in the survey showed a desire for intimacy with our current partners, keeping a healthy sexual life long-term requires effort.'Fantasies allow monogamous couples to get all the pleasure of 'new' sex without the pain of broken hearts and relationship,' she said.
Bogle presents a balanced analysis that explores the full range of hooking-up experiences.' - Joel Best, author of Flavor of the Month: Why Smart People Fall for Fads It happens every weekend: In a haze of hormones and alcohol, groups of male and female college students meet at a frat party, a bar, or hanging out in a dorm room, and then hook up for an evening of sex first, questions later.
Hooking Up is an intimate look at how and why college students get together, what hooking up means to them, and why it has replaced dating on college campuses. Today's boys and girls have never heard ofanything that dainty. But it is too simplistic to characterize the change in moral terms.
In surprisingly frank interviews, students reveal the circumstances that have led to the rise of the booty call and the death of dinner-and-a-movie.
Whether it is an expression of postfeminist independence or a form of youthful rebellion, hooking up has become the only game in town on many campuses. Bogle argues that college life itself promotes casual relationships among students on campus.
As casually as the sexual encounter begins, so it often ends with no strings attached; after all, it was -just a hook up.- While a hook up might mean anything from kissing to oral sex to going all the way, the lack of commitment is paramount.
is an intimate look at how and why college students get together, what hooking up means to them, and why it has replaced dating on college campuses.