I mean Im trying to be more about asking them QUESTions.
I was more comfortable with it being a blind date and knowing that she had no clue who I was before a friend set us up. Not somebody that is changing themselves to fit a situation. So I feel like I have nothing to talk about to a stranger without telling too much.
Once things become comfortable, your partner discloses his or her bipolar disorder.Or not even fully open your heart, but just not always have in the back of your mind that he may be a little shady. I think people in general can do the wrong thing or the right thing. I find myself wondering how or if I will ever be able to drop my guard. After the divorce and I dont mind dating, Im concerned that three more months I wont feel any better about trusting strangers.dating is scary. But I know for me I will continue to work on me and I dont want to get into a serious relationship anytime fast. hahah Warisover, my husband has been gone 18 months and I still do not feel like dating. I am still not healthy enough to make good decisions. I just went out on my first date tonight after 6 months from the event of my ex wife going manic and me catching her with the other man. Ive been in several bad relationships so now its like it would be hard to trust them. i know i have ptsd from all of this and am starting with a new therapist after moving to new area. maybe ill feel different after divorce is finalized but for now still defensive even if a guy is nice to me. Got asked out last night and got a mild case of the wtf,actually thought of you,he just got back from a tour. I do not know if he is or not but just not going there. There is a lot to do and we're positive that you'll enjoy your stay. There is a new level of interaction between our members by starting a journal or discussing topics in our forums.