You see, at the end of the day the first message isn’t really about what you say. So if you can get a girl giggling from the get go you’re off to a great start.
Example:but it still surprises me every time I read a Tinder horror story about some creepy guy going from 0-100 within the first few seconds.
Actually come to think of it, save the life story for when you’re on your fourth date.
Special Subject Line Crappy openers like ‘Hi there’ or ‘Hi Gorgeous’ are clichéd and most likely to get yawned over and forgotten quickly.
It also helps that our Member happens to love cooking.
I tack on a little self depreciating humor at the end, because her receptiveness means that I can afford to use it.
Any woman who includes a picture with a cute animal is easy to send a first message to.
Here was my opening gambit: When delivering a compliment on a more casual dating site like okcupid, it’s important not to go too far with the compliments. If you’re venturing into “beautiful” or “hot” territory, you risk coming across thirsty.