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The chemistry is strong, the vibe is good, you spend a lot of time together, you know he cares about you…and just when you’re starting to settle in and relax, he seems to be pulling away a bit. he doesn’t seem as enthusiastic about you or the relationship…or maybe it’s nothing you can put your finger on, just a feeling in the pit of your stomach. I space I met this guy online and we went on a few dates and it's time we was fine he flirted a bit much with the waitress the bartender who know but it was cute I thought at first. So I basically tell her "Hey, that's fine, but I'm just not looking for a platonic Hello I'm new on this site.My need for quietness, a certain routine and alone time is just so strong that it is incompatible with being a live-in girlfriend or wife.And it's really me, not him: I've tried to put myself in the other perspective, and I think it would be perceived as very cruel for anyone, even if they understand why I need this much space and me-time, to ask of them that they agree to leave me alone, let me sleep alone, cook alone, all while avoiding things that can make me snap or meltdown (and let's be honest here, I snap all the time.