First, I’ll give you a sense of what it looks like to fall for an emotionally unavailable man.Women who are attracted to this type of man find themselves in relationships with men who ultimately won’t commit or settle down, are already married or in another relationship, or are unfaithful in a supposedly monogamous relationship.You may have a history of dating people who fear commitment and intimacy, lack emotional sensitivity, cheat, or seem emotionally withdrawn.There are usually a few reasons why this becomes a pattern for people.So the solution then, is simple: stop dating unavailable men. Perhaps you’ve heard the theory tossed around that if you’re attracted to unavailable people, that’s a sign that you’re unavailable, too. Whether you like it or not, the people you’re attracted to can give you insight into where you really are (as opposed to where you to be) on the emotional availability continuum.There’s no way around it—the only way to stop being attracted to unavailable men is to work on becoming more available yourself.While you may not be directly inviting these “bad boys” into your romantic life, it is important to examine what own level of responsibility you may have in the overall dynamic.: The information appearing below may be difficult to read because it hits a little too close to home – but here is the deal – you came here because you want something better for your life.
Click through for some telltale signs that might help you out.After years of unsuccessful attempts at dating, you’ve finally isolated your problem: unavailable men.If only you could find a guy who wasn’t a total commitmentphobe, you’d be in the relationship you’ve always desired. You’re not the one who’s afraid of making more than one plan a week with your significant other or declaring your relationship status via Facebook—it’s the guys you date who can’t even commit to texting with consistency. The common denominator of all those guys who wouldn’t introduce you as their girlfriend, didn’t want you to meet their families, and couldn’t sleep over at your place without breaking into hives is YOU.I started getting a weird feeling about his situation and I snooped. It took a while for me to find out the truth, but it turns out that he and his wife are still reconciling.