We don't get to choose our family, but we do get to choose our friends.Often, our friends echo us in terms of personality, morals, values, socioeconomics and goals. No matter the gender, we find our friends attractive.I wish I could tell you otherwise, but I think you already know this. You feel this man could be the love of your life, and you’ve chosen to begin a relationship with him.
Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever.”The short answer is yes, you can be just friends, but don't expect smooth sailing. What do they think about men who have female best friends? ‘The last guy I dated had a female bestie and it was down right strange. I look at the photos again, she is ridiculously attractive. Don’t be silly I tell myself, men are allowed to have attractive female friends. The next day I float the idea with some female friends.Well, me and this guy started sleeping together about two weeks ago and we're crazy about each other. My feeling is that she would be very hurt, but at the same time I don't want to pass up a chance to be with someone who could turn out to be the love of my life, you know?So a part of me wants to tell her in the hopes that she would be happy for me, but when I put myself in her shoes hearing this news, I think I'd be devastated.