“When someone tells you who they are, believe them.” ~Maya Angelou After having been a rebound girl the summer of 2013, I swore I would never get involved with another emotionally unavailable man who had baggage and was a poor communicator.I thought I was a pro at all of the tell tale signs. He came on very strong in the beginning, telling me he deleted his dating app after our first date, that he turned down other dates because he didn’t want to waste time with other girls, and showed me in more ways than one that I was his priority. Things were at the height of our relationship, and I use this word loosely because it really wasn’t a relationship.Are you pouring your heart and soul into making your relationship work and sense that you are not getting the same in return?We have all played the tedious game whereby we swoon and fall for the perfect man, bend over backwards to get him to notice you, and realize too little too late that he is completely unavailable emotionally.He has convinced himself that he is being honest with me. I came to realize he will find another awesome girl and do the same thing to her to fill his void of being alone Lather. Repeat I sent myself in to a six-week black hole, and I will never get those six weeks back.
This means that they are unwilling to share their thoughts and feelings with you and prefer to keep things locked up. Whether it is explaining why he had to cancel on you yet again, or telling you why he just cannot see himself committing right now, he will be full of reasons why he cannot give you what you need.The three main characteristics of emotionally unavailable men So what exactly puts a man into the “emotionally unavailable” category?Generally, they tend to exhibit three basic characteristics.Being in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable man can be a strenuous experience on so many levels.When a partner is emotionally unavailable, they repeatedly refuse to engage in deep discussions or communicate on an emotional level.