Please don’t – it’s not sexy, it’s attention seeking and makes us judge you.’ 9) You have to at least offer to split the bill ‘Expecting a guy to pay for everything is really unattractive and quite frankly, off-putting.
We love treating you to dinner and will often try and pay, but it’s annoying when we feel like we have to.
Sarah is a smart girl – far more intelligent than she initially appears.
She plays the role of ditzy little girl with aplomb, and half of my friends still refuse to believe that her IQ could possibly break the triple digit barrier.
What we do know is that even the smartest women do some dumb things when it comes to love.
So I find that some intelligent women make the following mistakes when it comes to attracting and interacting with men.
The failure is in thinking that a disdain of superior intellect is a one way street, men to women. While it’s true that a man may prefer to be smarter or make more money than his significant other, it works the other way as well.
I know a lot of smart, funny, outgoing girls who never date men of their intellectual caliber. “I like the strong, silent type,” or “he’s really chill,” or “my boyfriend is really down to earth”…it’s all quaint slang for “My boyfriend is hot and I don’t let him talk a lot.” In fact, as of 2009, 33.5% of wives made more money than their husbands, and the percentage of women making more than their boyfriends is slightly higher.
I have a friend who is super smart, classy, and sophisticated. Long Answer: I’ve had three separate girl friends this week tell me a different version of this same story.
She was recently dating a guy who just stopped calling her. They have a friend who, out of nowhere, was dumped by her boyfriend. First, nobody gets “dumped out of nowhere.” If a guy breaks up with you after dating for a year, he probably started working up the courage to do it around the nine month mark.