Takes others months to sift through the crap to get to the gold ring. Everyone says they don't want to "play games" and then they do, I think that it is all a part of dating. Here is the positive thing to take from this--you didn't do anything wrong.OP----just MHO, it sounds in your OP like you agreed rather quickly to fly out to see someone. You are right, it is THEIR problem, don't take it out on yourself (like I do ALL the time! You are a fine person, from what I can tell, and you just need to recognize that not all candybar wrappers contain chocolate..contain p**p.-Derek"..from your friends their sorrow, and leave only joy..."yes, and there are many jerks out in the real world too, and there are many b!Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.there are many jerks becuase they play mind games.. one guy from dallas i really liked so much we had strong connection till we talked thru webcam few times then he stopped talking to me and he never told me why he stopped talking to me.. You hit the nail right on the head, it is their problem. Just kidding about that, but not kidding about wishing you the great............... Someone new here has had a bad experiance, it happens here as well as in life. The guy who was going to "fly" you to see him and then he blocked you, were you on webcam with him too until he saw all that he wanted? I have spoken with quite a few women on here and your story is so close to theirs it makes me wonder. Some people can't handle straightforwardness (straightforwardity? Just my thoughts and I know you didn't ask for a profile critique, so I'll keep my other thoughts to myself. I am totally sick of it and I'm cancelling ALL of my online match accounts, including POF.It seems like everyone's looking for love online ... A few short years ago, we had to put some actual effort into dating and finding love. We connected with friends and headed out on the town/to the bar/to the game.To meet possible compatible love partners, we started a new hobby, networked in our social circles, had friends set us up on blind dates, and generally spent some time looking for someone just as amazing/screwed up as we are.
You also know that understanding men is a key to finally writing your own grownup love story. LM really says it best, so here is what he has to say after reading about the various types of 40 single women, called my Please thank Bobbi on my behalf.I’m no slouch: tall, trim, own my own business, nice guy to a fault. “L, you are kind, decent, funny, and attractive but I just don’t feel enough “electricity” (aka infatuation) so I’m going to have to end it.”The biggest obstacle I face it is meeting this expectation of “rock me to my soul connection” fantasy man that even they can’t explain.Whatever it is, apparently I don’t have enough of it. In thinking about it, I’m not even sure when they say that, it’s the real issue. You are grownup and you understand how important it is to be empathetic. They want love, companionship, romance and commitment and are doing their best to navigate the rocky shores of dating over 40. Nice, successful, decent people who find themselves single at this time in their life.