It is very important to understand that this is not something to rush into.Sexual intercourse is an experience that should only be shared with someone you truly love, and who loves you back.You see certain “role models” jumping from one dating relationship to another.Yet God has more in store for you than just jumping from one relationship to another.Not everyone is looking, but 99 percent of kids are.It has always made me wonder, "Why is everyone in need of a boyfriend/girlfriend?I echo my husband’s sentiment and think the most important thing for a girl to do on a date is to remember she has great dignity and worth.Before a girl even says yes to a date, she must know that she is a beautiful, perfect creation of God.
Christians need to have a different attitude toward dating.
Similar to the magnificence of Heaven, her worth can be likened to the “pearl of great price” that the man went in search of and gave up everything for (Matthew -46).
If we don’t know our own worth, then we may put ourselves in situations where we are looking for the guy taking us out to provide us with our sense of worth.
Once you start getting older, however, that friendship may start to feel like there is something more to it. One of the smartest pieces of dating advice is to get to know the other person well first, so already being a friend can be a big plus.
If you feel comfortable, talk about your feelings with one another.