"Baby" is code for "I think wearing puka shell necklaces is cool, and no matter where we go, I'm secretly going to do coke in the bathroom."12.His idea of a date is really just a thinly veiled sexual euphemism.But while online dating may be a great way to find your soul mate, you’ll be confronted with thousands of candidates.
You get a text that seems like it was meant for someone else.
See, when women think of red flags, most times we’re looking for signs of baby mama drama, financial instability, or flirtatious ways in a man.
We’re looking for clues that let us know that he’s a cheater or untrustworthy, but many times, we overlook those subtle hints of emotional instability that will almost always leave us with a broken heart–or at least some worked nerves.
Nowadays, if a man tells me he often changes his mind and is indecisive, I take that as my queue to run for the hills. I wasn’t as knowledgeable as I was when I first met Mr. He seemed like a good catch, but slowly I started to notice his indecisiveness in small things.
For instance, he would want to eat at a certain restaurant and then change his mind after we got there. Eventually, those small things turned to big things. He was a retired NFL player and was looking for his next big endeavor. One minute he wanted to open up his own business, days later he wanted to coach football professionally at a college; then less than a week later, he’d come up with a whole new vision for his life.