Woman A: The longest lasting of these relationships started when I was 18 and he was 40. However, we didn't start dating until I was 18 and he was 36. They split up around 2009 and I didn't hear from him for 18 months. Do you think your age was part of the attraction for him? Woman B: Twenty-seven and he recently turned 42 (we're still together). We discovered we had a lot of interests in common and became good friends. Most of the men I dated more casually at the time were in their 30s. It also made me feel special — this man seemed so much more worldly than the men my age, and the fact that he was interested in me seemed too good to be true. Woman D: Originally I think I was flattered that somebody who had experienced so much of life was interested in me.Man C: Sexually, I was surprised by her openness to experiment and surprised that there was no stigma about oral sex.Previously, I had married a woman who did not like returning the favor, if you know what I mean.For their part, the men like the sophistication and life success of their older mates, she explains.The much touted idea that women peak sexually in their 30s and men in their teens does not enter into it -- most of these couples are beyond both those age periods.When you make eye contact, show confidence by holding her gaze (let her look away first).This combination of confident body language and eye contact will get her to see that you’re the kind of powerful, self-assured man older women like.
Tessina, Ph D, a licensed family therapist in practice in Long Beach, Calif., and author of The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again, tells Web MD. You can go through the list of females in your neighbourhood to browse through their pictures. Rarely do you hear about men who specifically want to sleep with women 15 years older than them as more than just a passing Mrs. Because he had a reluctance to grow up, he wanted to stay young in as many ways as possible. The next time we ran into each other was when I went to interview for a job in the ski resort's lift department, which he happened to be in charge of. I think he can't really find a woman to keep up with him, even in his own age group. The man I dated was essentially an 18-year-old himself when it came to maturity.