It also gives you a view of what a future would look like with them. You can see if you’re looking for the same thing in terms of what makes a relationship good. Ideally, it would be nice to go through each of your past relationships, not to relive pain or point out the mistakes of your exes, but it’s important to know that the person you’re with has learned from their own mistakes and isn’t just moving forward ready to make the same repeat mistakes with you. These are deep questions that could lead to lengthy conversations, but it’s important to know what you’re getting into.—————————————- Give the person time to think about these questions. Failed expectations are what causes a lot of disappointment.You need to be with someone who you would actually hang out with, someone who enjoys the same things as you. or What do you expect from a man/woman in your life?Yes, you can share each other’s different interests, but that’s why you need to ask this question, to see if you would enjoy adapting to their interests or if they would enjoy adapting to yours. You’d be surprised with the answers to this question.
There's certainly nothing wrong with that, as long as it's the real you! What is the first thing that you notice when you look at a man? If I don't say so, how do you know that I want to make love? If you know what the other person expects and desires from the onset, you know if you’re able and/or willing to meet the other person’s needs and wants. This is one of the most important and crucial parts of a relationship. A while ago, I had attended a meeting of several counselors and relationship experts, and as the conversation rolled on, one of the women counselors told me about a chart of questions that she had prepared for women. She briefly told me about each question and told me how this little piece of information can help change a relationship and help the women understand their men better.As humans, we assume that people have the same expectations that we do. Here you get a taste of what motivates the other person.Unfortunately, men and women are wired differently. Not only are we different because of our genders, but we’re different because each person’s past experience helps mold their expectations and each person’s past experience is different. You’ll get a taste of what drives them, what gives their life meaning and significance. It’s always nice to know what the other person views as ideal in their eyes. Let them name the top three qualities that are non-negotiable. What have you learned from your past relationships?