Between watching online porn, usually involving Japanese school girls, and playing Quake 3 Arena, sometimes I’d post on forums.I’d browse video game forums, digg, 4chan, and many others — one thing I’d hear from time to time is that Fast forward to my first time actually going to Asia, and this “it’s easy for white guys” mantra was even said by the manager (a Japanese man) of the guest house I was going to be living in. He basically said, Two of my friends were tall, good looking and fit guys — like with abs and everything. After each night we’d all hang out in the “common room” at our guest house and talk about our night, and this was really fun because it was like a mastermind group. I was having fun and did meet a lot of awesome girls.Even when I was able to get through to people that I AM CHINESE AMERICAN, it didn’t seem to matter.The fact that I was Asian and married to a white man was just an indication of the lack of “ethnic and cultural pride” in “today’s youth.” I was just excited to still be considered a “youth.” Now that we’re in Hong Kong, the notice of our interracial marriage is again mostly unremarkable.Many Chinese men would often prefer a pretty face over other physical characteristics.American-Chinese actress Bai Ling, who many Chinese did not find beautiful, has found success in the United States because, as Qing explained, Bai was able to maximize her other assets that are usually taken for granted in China.Obviously the black guy is the only person who can truly know what it’s like to be a black guy right?
The topic “Why do laowai (foreigner) marry ugly Chinese girls?But is it true that it’s ESPECIALLY hard for you to ? If you’re anything like most Asian guys, you probably believe it is.Somewhere through your childhood, you had some bad expereince where a white woman turned you down, VICIOUSLY stomped all over your heart and you’ve been scarred from that moment onwards.In the end, it still boils down to individual tastes: what one would find ugly, others might find gorgeous and vice versa, which is a good thing.It’s like the universe is ensuring that there’s always someone “beautiful” for each “beholder”, no matter how other people think.