SO HELP ME UNDERSTAND You are consciously and deliberately advertising to the entire (FEMALE) population that you are available.
Available to speak to women who believe you are unattached, that you look something like your 'thinner version' photograph, and that you are free (AVAILABLE) to engage in romance, possibly with her, at least on line.
You can check but perhaps he is just speaking to friends.
A fast way to find out is to go through his messages and call log on his phone.
At this point, you need to make a determination about what you are going to do about it and if this relationship can be repaired. I am trying to figure out if she has been posting stuff or emailing to anyone.
I have tried: Searching and downloading as many apps as possible.
Fortunately, these sites aren't as safe and anonymous as would be adulterers and cheaters would like to believe.
You’re just seeing what he’s doing online and that information is freely available to the world.
Your motivations for checking up on this are worth looking at, though, because it gives me the feeling that either something inside you feels like you don’t quite trust this guy or that you don’t trust the relationship you’re in to have trust as a quality (and so you’re always checking and testing because you don’t have that trust to begin with…
If you suspect your signifigant other might be using a dating site or app, there are a few ways to confirm your suspicions, including through starting your own infidelity investigation.
You'll need to check their phone for common dating apps, conduct a Google search using personal details like their email address, and, if necesary, create test accounts on popular apps and sites to see if your signifigant other is returned as a potential match.