You are tired of giving and giving to other people, without getting much in return.
But I feel with some of my actions i am self destructive of my relationship. I honestly want to put effort in because of how much i care for her. i dont want to start a fight and stuff in a relationship.
Do you often sabotage your relationships because you can't let guys do the pursuing?
"Distract yourself, do anything else but chase down a guy," she says.
You feel sorry for yourself, baffled about why this is happening to you but not knowing what to do about it.
You try to convince yourself that the problems you are experiencing aren’t really that bad.