"My boyfriend and I had been living together for a year until I moved out four months ago for graduate school.
I have to admit, things have been rocky but for the most part we've been able to get past all of our obstacles of long-distance hardships and trust issues.
After another social event that I attended with girlfriends, I found that he had done the same thing again. –Barb A man who is openly defying his two-year girlfriend to stay active on Match. The shareholders would have every right to demand an ouster. I do hate to be the one to burst your bubble, Barb.
This time I am not saying anything, but feel he is always looking for something better. My girlfriend who is on looked at his site for me (which is still posted) and said he had been on that day, just a few hours ago, which was while I was gone. A woman who has so little self-esteem that she puts up with such defiant behavior. But if the company knows and doesn’t fire him, whose fault is it that the behavior continues? And if I’m the CEO, I’m gonna keep on openly embezzling. But really, what do you think he’s DOING on Match each day?
Do you think he’s just browsing, like people browse through the mall?
Or would you guess that a man who has a membership on a dating site is actually, you know… There is simply no viable, reasonable, acceptable response he can make – even if, somehow, he has not met ANY new women since “committing” to you.
Don't get me wrong: In your shoes, I would be upset, but I think it's possible you can get through this.
Here's how I think you should do it…First of all, I think you're right to not have this conversation over the phone.
If it's not a passive-aggressive way of telling me we have broken up, what is it?
Neither the images nor the site were immediately familiar to us.
The pictures hadn't been taken from our social network profiles, nor had Patrick and I ever online-dated.
Of course, that's where my mind went first: Was my live-in boyfriend of five-plus years maintaining a double life filled with Internet honeys?
But how would that work -- he doesn't even know how to send an instant message.