If you think that the man has a car is important to the relationship, then I think you shouldnt date him. Life is a circle and you can't always have what you want right? Sometimes people work and all the money goes towards bills and deths and they have none left over to buy material things. You would proably do him a favor by getting rid od him so that he can find someone that may like him for him. Well in Ohio you can't survive without a car unless you live by Campus and even then it's tough, but what is going to happen when a guy like that have kids?
It will show you how humble and gracious he can be to others.can see how he treats people on public transportation. Gas is high,so is insurance, they are not GIVING cars away, and salaries are not what they used to be. Look, we REALLY need to get past these superficial things, we REALLY do. So to me a man without a car, especially at 37, there is no excuse. So you cant always blacme someone for not having certain things. You would proably do him a favor by getting rid od him so that he can find someone that may like him for him.
We have hungout during our breaks at work, but now I feel like I got to step it up abit further. I asked my co-workers if I should ask her out even with having a car.
So far I've got mixed reactions, and now its all up to me at this point.
Life is a circle and you can't always have what you want right? Shoot, call me a gold digger or a bitch but play it smart folks:)Women these days are afraid to be called any expletive or looked at badly so they give suckas a chance that don't deserve it, SMDH Not having a car is no big deal if you live in a very urban area where public transportation is available. What about living in a suburb, no one wants to live in a very urban area for ever or be wholly dependent on public transportation. I just got rid of a large SUV and have no intentions of buying a new car until the rain starts again.
So you cant always blacme someone for not having certain things. It's not about money or material possesions but being realistic, why would a grown ass man not have a car which is very necessary in most parts of the USA you can't get around without one period? Not having a car is no big deal if you live in a very urban area where public transportation is available. Is the whole family going to be doing the subway/trolley/bus 24/7?
Just curious whether my chances will be slim to none of ever going on a date cause of this. Hey you may get a good date and find a significant other to drive around the rest of your life if you slurge on the car and insurance. My car is dead and in the shop, no women gives me the time of day -- well 2 did so far, but I'm a nice enough guy where until I do get it back on the road, I am not rushing to meet anyone as most of them live a distance where they would have to head this way to meet.
Well my friends tell me I will never find a woman or get a date because women don't want to be chauffeurs.
It is hard to justify spending over ,000 for a car and insurance just for a date.
if the reason is dui, as another poster mentioned, then i dont want that for many reasons.
if it is about geopolitical ethics, i would consider it.