When met other guys since that they either got cold feet or would not want to commit.
Then they basically said they liked me but a relationship with me wouldn't work for them because I'm sick. Was devastated as well as confused for a long time.
All of these can make datingoften an ego-shattering minefield for those in perfect healtheven trickier.
"On bigger dating sites the competition is tremendous," says Jim Houran, Ph D, a clinical psychologist and columnist for Online Dating Magazine.
Not everyone out there have to have a healthy person to fall in love with- not everyone is put off by the CFS and not everyone out there is shallow. Became ill with CFS & Fibro at the age of 24 so had to wait 7 years!!
It is not true that No One wants to date the sick girl- as am proof of this!! Do not give up on hope of meeting that special someone- nothing is impossible yet everything is possible in its own perfect time!! Sending super gentle hugs to you, Love Clarita When I started dating my husband the fibro was not an issue, I was waiting tables had tons of energy and a very positive attitude, but I was still bi-polar.
As I told him about it, I watched the expression on his face shift to one of interest—interest . Wait till you find the right person who will not care about you being sick. Everyone treats me differently when they find out and NO ONE wants to date the sick girl.Then met my present hubby 8 years ago - at a speed date of all things(raising money for the asian tsunami appeal)- he knew right from day one of my cfs fibro challenges yet it never fazed him!!"And lets face it, depending on what [the illness] is, it could very well make you uncompetitive in the larger dating pool." Fortunately, there are a number of alternatives.A new breed of dating site has emerged to play cupid for people with chronic diseases and disabilities.