After nearly 25 years of marriage, I'm still a whole lot more social than my spouse, a personality clash that tends to become more pronounced during the winter holidays -- as well as during the summer BBQ season. We've made a deal that we rarely go out on both a Friday and a Saturday night in the same week.
One night we hang at home and the other night we either go out as a couple -- or I go out on a girls' night.
Before a Relationship Being introverts, INFJs may appear reserved at first.
However, they are extremely adept at relating to people on a one-by-one basis.
You can handle a lot of stimulation before you get overwhelmed.Yes, we love your kids, husband and other friends too. But we will feel disconnected from you if we don’t get to the heart level in our conversations and that usually requires being one-on-one.In general, we don’t enjoy groups–they’re simply too much for our nervous systems to process. And surface-talking groups are so overwhelming that they make it almost impossible for us to do that well.If you’re an introvert, it can seem like the world just isn’t built for you.From the very beginning, others have tried to change you, telling you to “come out of your shell” so that you can get the most out of life.