Yet, he’s constantly inundated with things like this: Because this brother is constantly hearing that he needs to be successful—a truly subjective concept—in order to bring value into a woman’s life, he continues his grind with a more singular focus, realizing that building with a woman is effectively off the table, because his intrinsic worth must be actualized through establishing himself as a success.
So he detaches himself from the prior goal of finding a compatible partner, to simply entertaining casual encounters until he’s “where he wants to be.” He realizes that broke men hold no value, and in this society “value” isn’t just a synonym for worth, but rather a wholesale evaluation of his masculinity.
Don’t do that to yourself especially if you are an ambitious, hardworking and successful lady.
Don’t listen to people who tell you that maybe God brought you into his life to lift him out of the pit of financial lack. You can only support him but you can’t make money on his behalf. A broke guy who is in relationship is not being true to himself.
There are a good deal of single, successful men out here who are only inclined to offer women flings, as opposed to substantive romantic connections. Well, the truth is that single successful men have a serious dating conundrum: attempt to build with a woman and risk being labeled as a broke ass dater, or get successful now, leave serious dating on the back burner, and attempt to find love at a potentially less personally fulfilling time in their life. She was just coming out of but they had everything man and I didn’t have anything. I just had a vision, man.” Yet women unmistakably know that for every Cory Hardrict, there’s fifty-leven musty dudes who have absolutely no inclination to better themselves.
Have you ever heard the old expression, “It's just as easy to love a rich guy as it is to love a poor one?
I’m talking about those folks who take “humility” to a whole other level (i.e. We were talking about the qualities we’d like for our significant others to possess and the usual characteristics came up.
You know, stable employment, a kind and generous heart, someone who is funny, intelligent, consistent and faithful, etc. She wants a dude who has it all together.” Whenever my friend gets in this mode—which I still have yet to determine if jealousy or a self-esteem issue is the culprit—I cringe.
Most women just want a man who has a job, a roof over his head (preferably not his mom's) and is willing to work hard to make a good life for his future family.
Young lady, dating a broke guy is one of the worst things you can do to yourself.
Even if you are on a mission to hurt yourself, kindly stay away from broke and entitled guys. Young lady, dating a broke guy is one of the worst things you can do to yourself.
If a man doesn’t know where he’s headed in life or what he wants to do to make money, what does he need you for?
He should go and figure out his life first before looking for where to sweat and release his semen. READ ALSO: Photos: Olubadan and Wives Arrive London in Pomp and Style Dating a broke guy is bad.