There is more to that drive than just trying to get laid.The desire to be liked and attract women is one of the most significant ways through which men are able to validate their masculinity and sense of self worth.Is that sexist, treating a grown man like a boy toy?One of my friends goes on dating sites looking for “casual encounters.” She has sex with a variety of men and says she likes it, and so do her dates.
I don’t know if I can ever separate sex from emotions. Do men see women as trashy if they’re interested in sex without a commitment? It’s good that you’re thinking this through before you act on it.There’s definitely an art to knowing how and when to give advice.Take some time to consider whether it’s appropriate to weigh in.I don’t judge her, but I don’t know if I could be comfortable with just sex, no relationship at all.I was brought up to see sex and love as part of the same package, preferably pointing to marriage. My life is full of activities on my own and with my friends, and I don’t want to do anyone’s laundry or be expected to put dinner on the table every night.