♦◊♦Dear I’m Not a Heart-breaker Type, As I’ve referenced time and time again, there are people who sign up to be on reality TV show where they are one of many people dating one guy.
The new people I do meet are either fellow musicians I interact with at open mic nights or sometimes girls back from where I went to college.She told me on our second date that she is still a virgin which I’m fine with. I was trying to be very respectful of where she’s at in life. I told her honestly I wasn’t sure, but it was something we could sort out after I came back from a family vacation I was about to go on. She told me that she felt like I had made her a back-up option, and because of my small social circle it had gotten back to her that she was not the only person I was seeing.Before the vacation, I went out with another girl, and had a third girl ask me out although no definitive plans were made. It seemed fairly new in getting to know each other to declare that she was my girlfriend.For those of you who are recovering betas, the idea of dating multiple women at the same time probably feels weird, unnatural, or even sleazy to you.That said, you likely have a primordial drive to do it anyway. I’m going to tell you how to go about doing it in a way that makes both you and your lucky harem of hotties (mostly) happy at the same time.