But I don’t know if this means we’re going to have a relationship.” Stating it at least gives you the “Hey, I told you so” if she gets too attached and you aren’t ready for a relationship.Another thing to remember is to keep the initial getaway short.Will you stay calm and take care of him/her while he/she pukes his/her guts out?
What would you do, for example, if your partner had a food poisoning?
If you want to just go away with her and have fun, you need to state that intention right away.
If the vacation is successful, she is immediately going to think you two are a couple, so I strongly suggest if you are not interested in her as a girlfriend, you tell her before you travel.
I know I enjoy being with you and I’d love to go away and have some fun.
You need to tell her, “Look, I don’t know what I want and I don’t know what I’m looking for.