Your own emotions are erratic, and it would be easy for you to get infatuated with anyone who treats you with dignity, respect, and warmth.
Have you noticed the number of people who get married the day after they are divorced? If the separation period is a time to seek reconciliation, why spend energy in an activity that leads to divorce and remarriage? We are still married while we are separated, and we ought to so live, whether or not our spouse complies.
Such activity encourages and contributes to the increasing divorce rate. Develop friends, but refuse romantic involvement until the fate of your marriage is determined.By Tracy Achen If you are thinking about dating during divorce ... You may think that you are free to start a new relationship once the decision is made to separate or divorce.But it is wise to hold off on the dating scene until after your divorce is finalized for a number of strategic, legal, and emotional reasons.Believe me, he will likely react to the fact that you are dating by making your life hell during the divorce process.He may seek revenge to compensate for the anger, hurt, and embarrassment that he feels you have caused him.