Now, one might wonder whether you should even bother dating a man going through a divorce (or a woman, for that matter).
Isn’t it going to be a risky and super-messy affair?
Dating is never an easy, straightforward affair; and it probably wasn’t meant to be so either!
When you are just getting to know a person, there are many things to consider, and several lines you cannot cross.
This means that the people involved are hurting on a very deep level, and are probably not in a position to think in a completely rational manner.
So when you’re dating someone going through a divorce, you might have to shoulder more than your usual share of keeping things sane and cheerful.
I helped her through the “breakup,” her separation, helping her negotiate a property settlement, and even paying for her attorney. I always said I did not want to have a fling with her and ruin our incredible friendship, and that if we dated, I did not want to be her first, but rather her last first date.That said, just one thing before starting: This article will focus more on the mindset to adopt than on the description of a concrete method. What is certain is that you have a very specific goal here.Coming out of a relationship that ended badly, she’s not likely to be either gullible or forthcoming.Miss A, I am writing to you so that I can get some advice.I thought maybe if I got a savvy woman’s perspective, it would be beneficial.