I want to be pampered and I don't care how much it costs," she adds.The 27-year-old businesswoman from Nagoya, spends around ,000 a month on the object of her desire -- a faintly androgynous beau with bleached hair and a boyish grin."I want my heart to flutter," Nitta told AFP at a popular club in the Kabukicho red-light district lined with chrome and mirrors."Japanese men aren't very attentive and don't show their feelings, but hosts treat you like a princess.Now, you’re probably familiar with the stereotype of Western guys moving to Japan to meet women.It’s a nasty stereotype…with a few grains of truth to it, we suppose.
One of the funniest moments of our pre-relationship (we worked together, both nursing crushes for 6 months before I made the first move) was when we were talking about Bones and he mentioned that some Japanese men find Caucasian women very attractive. This is why it took 6 months to get things started. I'll jump in here as a man, if I may, although my situation is the opposite way round.But some big-spenders splurge over 0,000 in a single night to have their egos stroked by smooth-talking rental Romeos who themselves can earn five times that amount in a good month.There are a growing number of wealthy and successful Japanese women that have become frustrated with traditional dating and instead prefer to focus their romantic energies somewhere they are guaranteed to be treated well.Maybe, as you say, it would be better to address these smaller issues as and when they come up. Anyway, there are actually a ton of us westerners/other non-Japanese married to Japanese men, including a small community of us on City-Cost.Although we could end up spending a lot of time doing that! I know of several American women who married Japanese men around 40 years ago, despite being judged like crazy.