His original message got lost in a long list of generic (or disgusting) messages from people, and I ignored it for a few days.So happy I finally responded and kept talking to him (even though I thought he was way out of my league).Don't understand it myself, but that's just the way it is...All of the Asians in my town are South Asian rather than East Asian, so that's not really fair.It was around then that he saw Ok Cupid’s data on race and attraction.Compared with black, white and Latino men, Asian men receive fewer matches and messages from women on the dating site.
One day, I want to go to western country, work at there and have a date with white women at least once in my life.
YEAR IN REVIEW: Paul Walker and six other inspirational people who died too soon in successful relationships,” West wrote.
“When couples like Lorde and Lowe violate that tacit social contract (by, you know, just liking each other a lot while being slightly different amounts of ‘hot’), the response is usually swift, bewildered, and thick with disgust.
Typical comments called Lowe a “Chinese sort of Ostrich boyfriend” or a “ching chong boyfriend,” comparing him to Mao Tse-tung and Long Duk Dong from “Sixteen Candles.” One Twitter user quipped, “Come back to us when your boyfriend doesn’t look like PSY gone wrong.” Others left remarks hitting below the belt, as it were.
In an item for Jezebel, Lindy West argued that it’s not just that James Lowe is ugly; it’s that their relationship violates the norms of what we expect from dating -- and what types of people we consider attractive.