A man who is desperate may have a strong want and desire to have a relationship; however, his behaviors can indicate low-self esteem and a host of other issues that turn women off and can actually be viewed as creepy and disturbing.
Here are 10 warning signs that can help you determine if you fit under the portrait of a desperate man: 1.
Wanting so badly to find love, they’ll do anything to make it happen. You find yourself making excuses for him time and time again. You feel like you’re giving more than you’re getting. You may also recognize her voice from her 150 articles at Relevant Magazine or Crosswalk.com!
Finding excuse after excuse; continuing to go back to a relationship- or even the hope of a relationship- that does not reflect love in any way shape or form. As hard as that may be to swallow, it’s also a message of hope. Like any healthy interaction, dating relationships, should also be reciprocal. She’s also the creator of this True Love Dates Blog!
Don’t appear like you a forcing the pace, nor come across as completely disinterested, find the middle path, and make sure that you are not doing these ten things that can make you look desperate and unwanted. Forsaking all your friends and being too available for him Just because you’ve met the man of your dreams, that doesn’t mean you should instantly drop all your friends.
If you can’t make a particular date, because you’d already arranged to go out with your friends, then tell him.
He’s going to expect you to be busy some nights anyway, and if you’re not, he’s going to wonder why not. Planning for the future too soon and showing yourself scared of being left on the shelf Keep the topic of conversation light on the first few dates.
Talk of marriage, babies and settling down will make it look like you are scared of being left on the shelf.
It doesn’t take long for women to get tired of constantly stroking your ego. Overly Calling/Emailing/Texting Her If you want to run a woman off quickly, one of the best ways to do it is to overly call, email or send text messages early in a relationship, especially when she hasn’t returned any of your messages.Sending a text asking why he didn’t reply to your other text is a definite sign of desperation and it will only annoy him anyway. Turning up unannounced Turning up at his home or his place of work, unannounced, isn’t just an act of desperation, it’s also a pretty creepy one.In the early stages of a relationship, surprises like that aren’t romantic, they smack of desperation and could get you accused of stalking! Pretending to like everything that he does If you pretend that you like watching a ball game on the TV when you don’t, your lie will come out eventually.The men who acted desperately were the weaker males with less to offer. In this instance, the consolidated lessons were Desperation=valueless.When a woman feels a man is desperate, she thinks “less valuable.” Being Evasive about Defining Your Relationship It is idiotic, annoying and a neon sign flashing “hot mess” when a woman asks a man about their relationship.