Often they’ll try and convince a friend or family member that the guy they’re dating has some great qualities. But they’re still a little sketchy, and that’s why they’re lower priced.
Some places even have photos that look appealing, but once you arrive, it’s a dump.
You will never be able to feel comfortable at his place and the situation can just be messy.
It is not your job to teach him how to be a proper adult. This also applies to the guy who only want to hang out and "watch Netflix" with you.
Ask yourself this question: if he lived more than a 10 minute drive away, would you still be with him? He may be perfect for you: handsome, smart, funny and a lover of memes, but you need to keep your professional life and personal life separate.
You don't want things to get awkward or be the talk of all the office gossip.
Dating guys with potential is like settling for a 2-star hotel.
With a massive facelift and tons of money thrown at a crumbling foundation, maybe you could turn a 2-star into a 5-star, but we’re talking a total remodel at that point.